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TAKE THE RETIREMENT SCORECARD https://tfp-fp.scoreapp.com WORK WITH ME AND THE TEAM 1-1 retirement planning conversation with me https://www.tfp-fp.com/retirement-assessment/ Why are you snapping over tiny things in retirement when you used to handle big problems with ease? In this video, I explain the “Redundant Brain” – what happens when a high-performance brain loses work, status and structure… and starts blowing up the small stuff instead. You’ll learn: - Why do little problems suddenly feel huge after you stop working - The 3 voids work leaves behind: structure, identity, connection - A simple 3-step plan: purposeful anchors, “shrink the task,” and a daily worry meeting This isn’t about fixing your pension. It’s about fixing how life feels in retirement. You’re not broken. It’s not you – it’s your operating system. 0:00 Why you're losing it over the dishwasher 1:10 The "Redundant Brain" Theory explained 1:53 Financial fortress vs. mental fortress 2:15 Why your brain craves "Capital P" Problems 3:33 The "Dripping Tap" Crisis (A real example) 4:48 Void #1: The loss of structure 5:39 Void #2: The loss of identity 6:21 Void #3: The loss of social connection 7:41 Solution 1: Design "Purposeful Anchors" 8:39 Solution 2: The "Shrink The Task" Technique 9:22 Solution 3: Schedule a "Worry Meeting" 🔔 Subscribe for more practical tactics to navigate the financial and emotional realities of retirement: https://www.youtube.com/@DanHaylett PLEASE NOTE: All of my views are my own, and not representative of any company. Any personal opinions, ideas, and tips represented on this channel should not be seen as financial advice or a recommendation to take any specific course of action.

TAKE THE RETIREMENT SCORECARD https://tfp-fp.scoreapp.com WORK WITH ME AND THE TEAM 1-1 retirement planning conversation with me https://www.tfp-fp.com/retirement-assessment/ Retirement is supposed to be the "golden years," so why do so many people feel more anxious after they quit working than they did before? You hit your financial number, you have the pension, but you’re still waking up at 3 AM worrying. In this video, we uncover the 5 Hidden "Gremlins" that sabotage your peace of mind—even when you have plenty of money. The truth is, financial security is math, but feeling secure is emotional. We explore why losing your steady paycheck feels so dangerous, why the "saver's mindset" is so hard to break, and how to finally silence the noise so you can actually enjoy the wealth you've built. In this video, we cover: - Why a big pot of money doesn't feel as safe as a monthly salary. - The "Identity Crisis" that hits successful professionals. - Why you might be struggling to spend money on yourself. - Practical tactics to defeat these gremlins. 🔔 Subscribe for more practical tactics to navigate the financial and emotional realities of retirement: https://www.youtube.com/@DanHaylett Timestamps 00:00 - The "Great Accumulation Hangover" 03:43 - Gremlin 1: The Vanishing Paycheck Anxiety 06:31 - Gremlin 2: Market Madness & Sequence Risk 09:10 - Gremlin 3: The "What If" Monster (Health & Care) 11:39 - Gremlin 4: The Identity Crisis 13:54 - Gremlin 5: Permission to Spend (Breaking the Saver's Mindset) PLEASE NOTE: All of my views are my own, and not representative of any company. Any personal opinions, ideas, and tips represented on this channel should not be seen as financial advice or a recommendation to take any specific course of action.

TAKE THE RETIREMENT SCORECARD https://tfp-fp.scoreapp.com WORK WITH ME AND THE TEAM 1-1 retirement planning conversation with me https://tfp-fp.com/retirement-assessment/ For decades, your brain has been accustomed to the corporate grind, getting a dopamine hit from every deadline met and target smashed. This video explores the very real psychology of this addiction, explaining how our mindset becomes intrinsically linked to professional achievements. We discuss the neuroscience behind these habits and how retirement planning needs to address this 'cold turkey' cessation of corporate validation. This exploration will help you tackle those retirement fears head-on and provide you with practical tips to shift your mindset toward a more positive outlook. 00:00 – Why your brain is addicted to work rewards 00:47 – The great retirement myth 02:00 – Losing structure & identity 02:56 – Neuroscience: Dopamine withdrawal 04:26 – Cognitive decline: "Use it or lose it" 05:35 – The 5 emotional stages of retirement 06:21 – The Honeymoon Phase 06:39 – The "Old Bummer Face" 07:06 – The Rebuild Phase 07:40 – The New Normal 08:03 – How to rewire your brain 08:20 – Pillar 1: Stop being a noun 09:15 – Pillar 2: Brain-friendly goals 09:39 – Pillar 3: Finding your tribe 11:00 – Creating a keystone routine 11:39 – Reinventing yourself PLEASE NOTE: All of my views are my own, and not representative of any company. Any personal opinions, ideas, and tips represented on this channel should not be seen as financial advice or a recommendation to take any specific course of action.

TAKE THE RETIREMENT SCORECARD https://tfp-fp.scoreapp.com WORK WITH ME AND THE TEAM 1-1 retirement planning conversation with me https://tfp-fp.com/retirement-assessment/ So you've played by the rules for 40 years, saved diligently, invested wisely, and ultimately earned your hard-fought freedom. But if retirement has left you feeling more anxious than at peace, you're definitely not alone in this experience! This episode dives deep into the common struggle with retirement mindset, reassuring you that these feelings of unease are a normal part of this new and significant chapter of life. We uncover the psychology behind the anxiety that can creep in unexpectedly, even when you have a seemingly flawless plan in place. This exploration will help you tackle those retirement fears head-on and provide you with practical tips to shift your mindset toward a more positive outlook. Furthermore, we will discuss the various emotions that can accompany this transition, including feelings of uncertainty and the search for purpose. The Purpose Finder: https://acrobat.adobe.com/id/urn:aaid:sc:EU:12d772f8-b377-4919-9987-b2764b5e7e8c 00:00 – Why retirement doesn’t feel like freedom 01:45 – Grieving your lost work identity 03:44 – Rebuilding who you are without the job 05:34 – Why your brain is starving for new problems 07:22 – Designing better problems in retirement 09:22 – The “endless vacation” myth 10:45 – Rebuilding daily structure and routine 12:21 – The pressure to be the “perfect retiree” 13:43 – Setting boundaries with others 15:06 – How your money mindset steals your joy 16:54 – Permission to spend and enjoy 18:33 – Embracing retirement as a journey PLEASE NOTE: All of my views are my own and not representative of any company or organisation. Any personal opinions, ideas, and tips represented on this channel should not be seen as financial advice or a recommendation to take any specific course of action. Remember, you are not alone in this journey, and together we can navigate the complexities of retirement.